Review: Heartstoppers Vol 1-4

 Heartstoppers is the story of a gay couple, Charlie Spring and Nick Nelson. Set in high school in England, the story starts with Charlie breaking up with his boyfriend for kissing a girl. Nick then recruits Charlie to play rugby (which is a much more macho sport than football --- no armor!), and in the process of the two becoming best friends Nick discovers his own sexuality.

The characters are great and well-drawn. Maybe it's all kind of odd because all the main characters are either gay or transexual or bisexual. What's interesting to me is that Alice Oseman focuses on everything that happens after the relationship starts --- all the relationships in the book start with no drama, no one is ever rejected. This seems very unrealistic to me, but you have to understand that the author is a young woman who's probably never been rejected before, and at some level the author's focus isn't on the start of a relationship but the maintenance of it.

The depiction of characters are great --- people genuinely care about each other, and the treatment of anorexia is unusual and realistic. The book's main message is that love doesn't cure mental illness --- you have to get help and get the support of everyone around you, teachers, parents, doctors, and yes, your boyfriend. I love how tolerant everyone is in the book as well --- even the homophobes eventually admit to being wrong.

The book is set in England, so there's talk of A levels, but I also love that the school trip is to Paris and they don't need anything more than a bus to go there. The school trips depicted in the book are also way more chill than American school trips, with the kids being given lots more freedom and autonomy to approach a museum the way they want to, rather than being herded like cats. That's par for the course --- by the teenage years, in most countries kids have much more autonomy than in the USA.

With the huge amount of tolerance for non-straight behavior in the book, it's not a surprise that right-wingers have banned Heartstoppers. That should be enough to get you to read the book, but the reason I would want my kids to read the book is because it's full of empathetic characters who care about each other, who learn to deal with each other's problems, and are resilient enough to cope with bullying and other negative events in their lives. And that's good enough reason to read the book.